Tomorrow is my grandmother's 49 days after her death. I had a handicapped auntie whom can communicate with my grandmother. According to her, She said that my grandmother is very sad and told her that she cannot come and visit her after 49 days. Then she claimed that my grandmother told her that she was feeling very vexed. She said that my grandmother told her she was given 2 choices which is whether to recarinate or to become a buddha. My grandmother told her that she do not want to depart from us because even though she died, in her heart she still loves and misses us. I really miss my grandmother. She is a very caring person. When my mother was young, she used to work very hard in order to rise her 11 children (education etc). There was a time because of running after the bus, she fell down and her leg is bleeding but she still continue to go for work. She did not went to see a doctor because she wanted to save money. From that day, she had a crooked left knee. Now you see how great she is....